Love My-Self First?

I was always so confused when people I admire would tell me to love myself first before anything and anyone, but I never fully understood it completely. I “thought” I was loving myself when I began to nourish my body better, work out, and get manicures, (which by the way, are great ways to show self-love!) But, what…

Idols, Love, and Friendships

Remember being that young kid wanting to grow up? I do. I remember always acting to be an adult, more like a spouse, in almost every acting game I played with my cousins. We always acted as if we had a husband and that we were stay at home moms. (My cousins and I would watch TOO many…

How Do I Obey God?

Okay, so let’s say that you have now accepted Christ as your Lord and savior. You are what most people like to call, “baby Christians” and really desire to obey God and hear from Him. You’re so excited about it, but now you are confused and feeling overwhelmed by not fully understanding where to begin. This…

I’m Saved! Now What?

Okay, so now you accepted Jesus as your Lord, but now what? As baby Christians, it is very easy for us to think that just because we became baptized, and are now fired up for this new life, we don’t need to do anything else and God will take care of the rest with no pain or…

Why Should “I” Forgive?

Ugh, forgiveness! It’s so easy to know we can be forgiven, but when it comes to us having to ask for forgiveness  (even when you’re not at wrong according to you,) it seems so traumatizing. Right when you get the guts to to apologize or accept an apology, all those negative feelings and thoughts about that…

Who’s are You?

Are You tired of wondering about who you’re supposed to be in this world?  Seeking happiness in romanic relationships that never last? Or, perhaps longing for a significant position and searching for careers that will fulfill that desire? We’re all guilty of having these thoughts and desires. We seek happiness in things and positions that…